The last days of my twenties have been filled with significant transitions, rekindling of friendships, healing, and nostalgia. With so many things finally aligning in my little world, I can’t help but think of the number of lessons that life has taught me in the last ten years.

In honor of my 30th birthday being less than 30 days away, I thought what better way to celebrate it with you than to share what I’ve learned along this passage to adulthood. Here are my 30 lessons learned.